The purpose of this post is to give you a short synopsis of the journey from continually reacting to the challenges of life. And to switch to a liberated mind, that has learned to listen to arising emotions and accurately assess what the real issues are that I’m currently facing.
Having spent the first forty years of my life in a constant state of always reacting to situations and people, I’m permitting myself to pass on what I learned (…)
Are you associating ‘happiness’ with an experience that is sustainable?
Therefor it’s worth searching for?
If so, how far have you come?
How satisfied are you with your findings?
What makes you search for it?
Is it the belief you have not found it yet?
Or you found it, but it went away, did not last?
Therefore it must be still out there?
For how many years are you repeating that cycle already? For how many years more do you want to carry on? (…)
We are responsible for the way we treat our body, our thoughts & emotions, the relationships in our lives. Yet, no-one is responsible for the conditioning of their mind. As soon as we were born the conditioning began. Even before, as we picked up messages already inside the womb. And that’s OK. The beauty is that we don’t have to carry this programming with us for the rest of our lives. We can evaluate. Let go. Choose (…)
They unquestionably can be! However, we do need to be able to tell the difference between an objective experience and a subjective experience. If you blame someone else for how you feel that would be an idea that the other person is the object of your feelings. Here is a solution (…)
Life is suffering. We heard this many times. And yet, this is only true if you don’t see how you … More
You wake up from a gripping nightmare.
You were drawn into a deep dark hole, three powerful forces controlling you.
You felt overwhelmed, powerless, being held captive.
The thoughts and images were real,
the emotions that shook you were real,
the body sweat and trembling were real.
Can a dream be for real?
Luckily you woke up, and the nightmare is over.
But is it? (…)
Who is running the show?
Your Body Signals?
Or are you in control of all three? Especially when they run wild, can you stop them from doing damage, either by calmly settle them down, or at least let them go until they calm down by themselves?
Thoughts of revenge, feelings of rage, a panic attack. As impossible as it may seem at times, the answer is ‘Yes, you can!’. (…)